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Beth Sandland

My Relationship with Bras

05/22/2020 · FASHION, I'VE BEEN THINKING, LIFESTYLE, SPONSPORED POST, STYLE, WELLNESS

This blog post is in paid partnership with les girls les boys. All imagery and views are my own.

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How conscious are you of your relationship with underwear? For me, it’s one I’ve always been hyper aware of. Mostly in a negative way. A boob a size (okay, two) bigger than its sister, bras that gape and nip-slip on one side as a result. Lacy tooth-floss thongs that leave marks (and will probably give you thrush) because you don’t wear full briefs over the age of 14, right? Until now, my underwear has always left me feeling relatively negative about my body. I found functional and I found sexy, but never both. It never properly fit, leaving me to assume that my body – my breasts – must be the wrong shape, or size, or both. I never once considered that perhaps the garments were the culprit; uncomfortable, wonky spreaders of doom. It’s taken me until my mid-twenties – a solid 13+ years of bra wearing – to finally find the most comfortable bras, and ones that suit uneven breasts at that. So I’m gonna go ahead and write an entire blog post about it because, boob-owners, this is the gold we’ve been waiting for.

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les girls les boys is the brain child of Serena Rees, co-founder of Agent Provocateur. Known for its ‘bed to street’ approach (and for housing my all time favourite loungewear) to fashion and lingerie. Embracing modern and cross-cultural attitudes towards apparel, les girls les boys’ focus is on quality, fit and style. And it shows. The price point feels fair, justifiable and for many, accessible.

These are the most comfortable bras I’ve ever worn. The fabric is quality, the cut is flattering and the designs are attractive but most of all, they fit supremely well. With decades-long expertise in lingerie at its heart, les girls les boys has hit the nail on the head with underwear that fits and feels as good as it looks.

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Crying in Department Stores: a short story

It took me a long time to accept that my boobs are uneven. I’d have probably done so a lot sooner and given far fewer fucks about it had I been able to find a bra that fitted. Instead, I could invariably be found throughout my teen years in some department store or other, crying in the lingerie section. My solution was always the same, to little success: I’d let a random 55 year old woman called Jean or a bored shop-assistant not that much older than I was prod me with a rather confronting tape measure in a stuffy changing room. A friend would tell me to go to a ‘real’ bra shop – you know the one – and so the charade would begin again. We would stand there, sweaty upper lips and awkward fumbling with clasps, both knowing full well that I was not about to spend the three plus figures required to purchase just two of these boob-suffocating, floral granny printed over the shoulder boulder holders in a 28FF. Is that even a size? It certainly wasn’t mine. The outcome was always the same: I’d resort to some bedroom contortionist act with a tape measure nicked from the DIY cupboard and a ‘measure yourself’ page ripped out of Cosmo. All before trotting off to spend £6 on something jelly-like promising “two cup sizes bigger” (I can remove one side, right?) that would probably make me look like I’d lactated if I hugged anyone too enthusiastically.

A few years ago I did away with under-wiring, except on special occasions. I also did away with anything balcony because they are not a wonky girls friend. It was a start. Now on to the quest for the most comfortable bras.

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les girls les boys Underwear: the most comfortable bras I’ve ever worn

les girls les boys bras are split into ‘soft bras’ and ‘underwired bras’. Already they’re speaking my language. The selection of soft bras – I’ve tried 3 different styles – are my absolute go to. They tick all my boxes: they’re insanely comfortable, but not baggy nor totally unsupportive. They satisfy my ‘if I put a bra on I’ll be more productive‘ approach to working from home, so much so that I forget I’m wearing one at all. High praise coming from someone who usually whips it off the second (and I mean, before I even take my shoes off) she walks through the front door. And, they look good. They make me feel good.

My highest praise though, goes to my new pal the Daisy Lace Underwired Bra. I didn’t think I could wear lace bras. Usually they bulge on one side and look like a deflated helium balloon a week after the party’s over on the other. I get self-conscious and uncomfortable so I just don’t wear them. I ordered this one as a bit of a test and I really didn’t expect to like it, and certainly not to feel happy to be photographed in it.

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Necklace by Daisy London: click here to see their women’s necklace


I’m a favourites kind of person: ‘if I could only use one skincare brand again, if I had to only buy pyjamas from one place, sleep in one brand of bed linen and so on…’. Well, if I could only buy loungewear and bras from one place, it would be les girls les boys. This is underwear for all minds and all bodies and for that, I am very grateful.

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My favourite picks:

Semi Sheer Seam Free Crop Top

Daisy Lace Underwired Bra

Ladder Detail Soft Bra

Tight Shorts

Tiger Print Track Pants

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Comments

  1. Sunshine Sarah says

    05/22/2020 at 13:28

    Hey Beth

    Love this post the underwear looks beautiful as do you 😍😘

    Reply
  2. Hels says

    05/22/2020 at 13:34

    Absolutely gorgeous photos 😍 I can relate to so much of this, I definitely fall into functional not sexy underwear category! I absolutely love my Les girls les boys loungewear, I’ll definitely have a look at the underwear, and I love the Tiger print track pants!
    Hels xxx

    Reply
  3. Lucy says

    05/22/2020 at 13:54

    These are amazing photos Beth! These bras are so pretty, I’m an awkward bra size and it’s difficult for me to find bras that fit me perfectly and are functional! x

    Lucy | http://www.lucymary.co.uk

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  4. Sarah says

    05/22/2020 at 14:01

    I’ve been browsing their site for months now, obsessed with their stuff. Looks like it’ll have to make its way up the “to buy” list 😻

    Reply
  5. Alanna Jean says

    05/22/2020 at 18:52

    What a fantastic post! I’m so glad someone who inspires me has spoken up and shared their story. These images are lush! You’ve done a wonderful job ❤

    Reply
  6. Lisa says

    05/23/2020 at 12:58

    I love the black one! My boobs are huge now because I am breastfeeding and it is even harder to find good bras now! They need to be comfortable, functional and cute but they’ve only seem to master the first two.

    http://www.thelisasworld.com

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    • Beth Sandland says

      05/23/2020 at 14:49

      Have a look at the seam free crop top for at home comfort – I’d imagine it’s BF friendly! Xx

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    • Beth Sandland says

      05/23/2020 at 14:49

      And the ladder style too 😍

      Reply
  7. Frances Hemmant says

    05/24/2020 at 18:07

    These photos are stunning! And the bras look SO comfortable! You’d think that there would be a myriad of places that sold comfortable, pretty and well fitting bras seeing as I guess half or more of the population wear them, but definitely not an easy task. I will 100% be looking here as I am actually in desperate need for some!

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Where the Crawdads Sing, Delia Owens: totally captivating, unusual and enchanting. I literally devoured this one!
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Queenie, Candice Carty-Williams: as well as being laugh out loud funny, Queenie is also an education. A must read on what it’s like to be a young black woman growing up in London. Also tackles mental health really well!
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The Flatshare, Beth O’Leary: I recommend this to anyone who just really needs a hug from a genuinely enjoyable book. It’s warm and lovely but offers depth well beyond your usual chick lit too.
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Homegoing, Yaa Gyasi: this novel is such a triumph! Spanning over 300 years from pre-colonial Ghana to present day USA, each chapter follows a new character in the lineage of two sisters. One sold to slavery, the other married to an English coloniser. It’s sweepingly powerful and incredibly well written. I could’ve read an entire book on each character!
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A Man Called Ove, Fredrik Backman: Ove was the very first book I read in 2020 and it stuck with me throughout the year. At its most basic, it’s the story of a cantankerous old man. Delve a little deeper and it’s funny, heartbreaking and incredibly heartwarming. I just love Ove!
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Happy new year saucepots! We had an ultra rock n’ roll night (read our books in bed then watched the midnight fireworks - that was a nice surprise! - on a phone before falling promptly to sleep...) and today is all about a long walk, a longer bath, books and tea. And obviously starting a new diary because isn’t fresh stationary the best thing about a new year?!
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Are you setting New Years’ resolutions? I prefer a bit of reflection and mindset shifting. This year it’s all about setting firm positive boundaries, protecting my energy and saying no to things/people that don’t serve that. I like the new year, not for the ‘new me’ noise but rather as a chance to let go and embrace a fresh beginning again. ⚡️☕️
As far as NYE outfits go, I’m not mad about this As far as NYE outfits go, I’m not mad about this one...🐻🥂 I hope you’re all well and excited to bid farewell to 2020. I know the clock striking midnight doesn’t fundamentally change anything but I’m hopeful that we can look forward with more optimism. I always find the turn of the year really emotionally complex. I’m not even going to attempt to unpack this last one other than to rejoice that even amongst the lowest of lows there have been highs. My beloved Nan won’t see the new year, which is hard to contemplate. I also married my best friend. This time last year I was miserable on the sofa, a day after surgery for our first miscarriage and wishing I could press pause on life. Tonight I’m still on the sofa, but full and at peace rather than empty and grieving, looking forward. For us, 2021 will see the birth of our little cub so it’s one that I’m welcoming with open arms. So much can change in a year and I hope you can seek comfort in that. However you’re feeling tonight, I’ll raise my alco-free bubbles to you because you did it: you made it through one of the toughest years in history. Brighter days are coming ☀️💓
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